Private Support

Private Weaning & Sleep Transition Plan

Personalised support for families ready to reduce breastfeeding, bottles, night feeds, or milk-to-sleep patterns with a realistic, responsive plan.

Breastfeeding, bottles, and night feeds can become deeply connected to sleep, comfort, reconnection, and daily rhythm. When you are ready to make a change, generic advice is often not enough and support along the way is essential.

This private package gives you space to look at your child, your family context, your routines, and your own limits and create a transition plan you can actually follow.

Who this is for

This package is for parents of older babies and toddlers who want to:

  • reduce or stop breastfeeding
  • night-wean without feeling abrupt or harsh
  • move away from bottles or milk-to-sleep patterns
  • change bedtime or night-waking habits connected to milk
  • create new rituals of connection and comfort
  • feel clear before making a change
  • receive support that respects responsive parenting and real family life

This is not one-size-fits-all advice. We look at what milk is doing in your child’s day and night, and then build the right next step.

What is included

Part 1: The Transition Plan

90 minutes

In the first session, we map your current situation carefully. We look at your child’s age, feeding pattern, sleep rhythm, temperament, bedtime routine, night wakings, family culture, parental capacity, and what has already been tried. Together, we create a clear transition plan for reducing breastfeeding, bottles, night feeds, or milk-to-sleep patterns in a way that feels structured, responsive, and realistic.

You leave with:

a clearer understanding of what role milk is playing
a personalised starting point
practical language and boundaries
a realistic plan for the next two to three weeks

Part 2: The Integration Check-in

60 minutes

Scheduled 2–3 weeks later, this session helps you assess what is working and what needs adjustment. We review progress, troubleshoot resistance, refine the plan, and support consistency so the new rhythm can become more stable. This check-in is especially useful when your child protests the change, nights become inconsistent, or you need help adapting the plan to real life.

A gentle transition does not mean an unclear one

Responsive weaning is not about avoiding every difficult feeling. It is about making change with preparation, connection, repetition, and loving boundaries. The goal is not to remove comfort. The goal is to help your child experience comfort in new ways through rhythm, words, touch, presence, rituals, and predictable limits.

Prefer to create your plan in a live workshop?

Live Weaned with Love workshops in Amsterdam and Hilversum are designed as hands-on planning sessions. You will learn what to expect, explore different weaning and night-weaning approaches, and work through a printed planning guide step by step so you leave with your own transition plan.