Weaned with Love

Culturally-informed advice for parents in the Netherlands who want to reduce breastfeeding, bottles, night feeds, or milk-to-sleep patterns without losing connection.

Weaning is rarely just about milk.

For many families, breastfeeding, bottles, or night feeds are connected to sleep, comfort, connection, and daily rhythm. Weaned with Love offers responsive, structured support for parents who want to make a change without rushing the emotional process.

For parents who need more than one-size-fits-all advice

When general advice is not enough

Many parents are told to “just stop,” “offer water,” “let the other parent take over,” or “stop feeding to sleep.” Sometimes that advice is useful. Often, it is too general for real family life.

A plan that fits your child and your context

We look at your child’s age, temperament, sleep rhythm, feeding pattern, family culture, work demands, and your own capacity. The goal is not to force a method, but to build a transition you can actually hold.

What parents say

Parents often come to this work feeling tired, unsure, and overwhelmed by conflicting advice. What they remember most is feeling understood, supported, and clearer about their next steps.

Aspa is wonderful both as a person and as a professional. She helped me incredibly. She is one of the few experts who truly knows what she is talking about, always with love and empathy for both the child and the parent.

Evaggelia G.

Aspa has been incredibly helpful with both our breastfeeding journey and our daughter’s sleep. She is trained, informed, and deeply respectful of the way you choose to parent your children. More than that, she is first and foremost human; generous, supportive, and present in the difficult moments of parenthood.

Anny P.

I owe a lot to Aspa. My journey into motherhood would not have been the same without her.

Rania C.